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For the tired ones, I see you.
A personal message of hope and care - because you deserve it.
Feb 131 min read


Forgive yourself for not knowing better.
To those with childhood trauma.
Dec 15, 20252 min read




I hope you never lose hope.
For eveyrone one out there on your healing journey
Nov 2, 20252 min read


Dear Sadness, why are you here again?
Maybe it's for a valid reason. I hate being sad. I don't think anyone likes being sad either. But yet today I find myself sad again. Finding myself uncomfortable with this feeling... Wanting it to go away too. -- Why do we hold on to sadness? Often, in the eyes of others, it feels like such a silly thing to do. Yet I don't think so at all. Because sadness is a part of me. It's the part of me that carries a heavy burden too. -- So I spoke to my sadness today, asking it why it'
Sep 28, 20252 min read


On why you don't deserve more shame.
And a random ranting on my pet peeve about my fellow therapists too.
Jul 7, 20252 min read




The path to "secure attachment".
And the surprising answer behind this too.
Jun 21, 20251 min read


Do you have a messy "dark side" too?
And how to let that this part of you heal.
Jun 19, 20252 min read


It's not your fault you couldn't read their minds.
A short story on being true to yourself instead - and why that matters.
Jun 18, 20252 min read


Grief isn't just about mourning others.
You are allowed to grieve the lost versions of yourself too.
Apr 13, 20252 min read


Do you feel guilty for saying "no"?
And why it's important your prioritise yourself too.
Mar 10, 20252 min read


Feelings were never meant to "feel" this way.
And why it's not your fault.
Mar 1, 20252 min read


"Hope is a double-edged sword", she said.
Isn't it better to be hopeless?
Feb 8, 20252 min read




Onward, to the things that matter.
A little start of the year reflection.
Jan 4, 20252 min read


The unspoken parts of grief.
Don't ignore it you're allowed to feel it.
Nov 24, 20242 min read


You don't have to be perfect to be loved.
Included: a little reflection question for you as well
Nov 21, 20242 min read


You are not meant to look after everyone's feelings.
This is what I've learnt to do instead
Nov 16, 20242 min read






Why do I feel uneasy when I'm doing nothing?
On "being", and not just "doing"
Oct 15, 20242 min read


For my fellow childhood trauma survivors.
This is why you deserve to give a chance to love.
Sep 3, 20242 min read


WORKSHEET: Emotions - our inner children.
An emotional regulation practice focused on inner child / parts work.
Aug 29, 20242 min read
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